I’ve never been very close to my family since I left for university and then to start my own life and career in LA. A couple of years ago, my family came closer together briefly around the time my mom passed away after being ill with cancer. I had the opportunity to bond with my half-brother who was twelve years younger than me and starting his junior year of high school. Despite not seeing much of each other most of the time he was growing up, we had a surprising amount of common interests and eerily similar personality traits. I promised him we would go on a trip together when he graduated from high school…
So, I kept my word, and after he graduated last June I offered to take him to New York since he had never been out of state and he was interested in theater. I had also never there, so I thought it would be fun to discover a new place together…
I previously wrote about my experiences in New York on 43 Things; see the links below:
http://www.43things.com/entries/view/3431963
http://www.43things.com/entries/view/3425906
http://www.43things.com/entries/view/3430851
http://www.43things.com/entries/view/3425201
http://www.43things.com/entries/view/3425089
http://www.43things.com/entries/view/3421203
I did learn more about my brother during the trip (good and bad), and there’s always a bit of a challenge in getting used to other people’s habits spending a few days with them after not having previously spent much time so closely together. I think we did grow a little closer though not to the point of becoming “best friends” or anything like that, and I didn’t realistically expect (or necessarily) want that either. Besides the years of being apart, the age difference is also a factor, and I think it seems I’m more like an authority figure/mentor than a friend…
Anyway, what I remember most about New York is the time I spent with my brother (including the time spent in the hotel room watching the Olympics and discussing the upcoming election). I liked New York, but it was so expensive. I almost wish I would have chosen a more affordable place to visit together…